Some time ago I had the opportunity to get some quality teaching experience while on the job. Every year we give the kids a "How to Live a Virtuous Life 101" class. My boss is in love with the idea of my taking over as much responsibility as humanly possible so I had the privilege of teaching 3 out of the 4 nights each week. Let's say that it has been as enjoyable as it is eye-opening and frustrating.
Teaching the younger grades (1-4) is always fun because the little kids are always eager to raise their hand, unafraid of speaking (even if the answer is wrong) and trying to think of examples, scenarios, etc. They are, for the most part, eager to listen and learn.
Fifth and Sixth grade is a little bit of a different story. They've started to grasp that idea of "I-get-spoon-fed-at-home-and-school-why-should-I-try-exerting-myself-here?" mentality. So I, as teacher, have to be more proactive and persuade them to use their minds and come to the proper conclusion without my giving away the answer. The first few days were rough but by the last day I had a pretty good handle on it.
The last week, however, was totally and completely different.
Permit me to vent for a few moments about the condition of our poor junior high students. The 7/8th grade seminar topics cover these virtues:
-Respect
-Modesty
-Moderation
-Simplicity
-Friendliness
-Sociability
I won't go into all of them as that would be a REALLY long post but let me give you a sampling of just a few.
Respect is a big area that kids today have no clue about. And it's not really their fault either. No one has taken the time to train them or show them how to respect others or themselves. Today: Respect = toleration. I asked about six kids in the class what the definition of respect was. Answers ranged from everything to "I don't know" to "having respect". When asked if they are allowed to define a word at school by using the same word in the definition, the answer was "yes." Grrr....
Modesty. Yeah, I'm not a huge fan of speaking on this subject when both the boys and girls are together but I had to make the most of it.
Me: What is modesty?
Student: I've never heard that word before.
If anyone has been asking themselves lately why kids dress the way the they do, there is your answer. They have NO CLUE what it means to be modest. They are taught to make a statement about who they are. It's all about expression. But no one ever tells them that they still have to respect themselves and others and stay within the realm of modesty.
The best answer I got for
moderation was "being modern". Well, at least he was trying to go for the root word, albeit unsuccessfully.
Of course, not all the students were quite that bad. But really, the experience led me to make to several conclusions.
First, we have a LOT of work to do.
Second, we who know have the responsibilty to educate.
Third, we can only educate others by first forming ourselves.
Fourth, I need to spend more time praying in front of the Blessed Sacrament.
Today is the Feast of St. Francis de Sales. It wouldn't hurt to start reading Introduction to the Devout Life. Don't have a copy? Check out your local library (haha, I'm sure you'll have to ILL this one) or go to St. John the Evangelist Library in Front Royal, VA.
Can't wait to go to the library? click on this link for an on-line PDF of the entire book:
www.franciscan-sfo.org/ap/wosf/devout_life.pdfWant your own copy? Go to amazon.com and search for it. It's as simple as that.